A Look at Some of the Counterintuitive Aspects of Female Sexuality

Women Sexualizing Their Traumas, in This Case Rape Trauma

Al DuClor: It is hard to know with women because you can't take seriously anything they say about their sexual desires.

About whether women’s stated sexual desires can be trusted, if you get a deep girlfriend who really loves you, she may unload on you. Most of mine have.

Al DuClor: One of the more noteworthy findings was that there is supposedly rapid growth in violent rape porn, almost all viewed by women. Women are viewing more porn and this is becoming one of the significant types at least according to that survey. There may be some truth to it because various surveys have found at about half of women claim they have had at least one rape fantasy.

Yeah, science has even proven that women get turned on by at least the idea of being raped. One very serious problem with getting raped is that a lot of women get very aroused and even orgasm while they’re getting raped, even if it is very unpleasant for them. This is profoundly confusing to the woman and leads to all sorts of bad feelings like shame and guilt.

And incredibly, a lot of women who get raped sexualize their trauma, and after the rape, they masturbate a lot to the memory of the rape. This is also very confusing. Some women claim they are doing this for “therapy” for their trauma, which sounds weird to me. Women molested as girls commonly sexualize that sexual trauma too.

I think women simply sexualize their traumas by nature, and this may be part of the Feminine Character. I have no idea why they do this but perhaps it is a survival mechanism. If women evolved by getting regularly raped by violent cavemen (and I have reason to believe they did), then sexualizing the trauma is a way to cope with this reality without falling apart and getting crazy, unable to function, or reclusive.

But if you meet a woman who is still all wrapped up in the fact that she got raped, and this is currently a huge source of trauma for her, I’d advise you to keep away. Say you meet a woman named Sue:

Happy Hal: Hi Sue!

Sad Sue: (sad face). Hi (sad tone).

Happy Hal: Hey, why so sad, Sue?

Sad Sue: I got raaaaaaaaped.

Happy Hal: Bye!

Also if she’s all wrapped up in her rape like that, sadly, in a lot of cases, the only kind of sex she’s going to want is really rapey consensual sex, and you might not be into that. And if you can’t give her that sort of sex, she’s taking off.

Despite the obvious appeal of at least rape fantasies and consensual rapey sex to women, the modern woman paradoxically spends most of her time rape fearmongering and hyperbolizing which dribbles down to #Metoo bullshit where looking at them and talking to them is literally rape.

Pay Attention to What Women Do, Not What They Say

Al DuClor: One of my favorite examples is a researcher on the BBC who tested what people said they wanted in looks vs the partners they selected in speed dating.

Don't pay attention to what a woman says. Pay attention to what she does. What she says is what she wants people to think of her so she can see herself as a good person. The problem is she really isn't a good person.

On the contrary she's a bit of a bad person in a way, which shows up in her behavior, which she probably then denies away or claims she was Stockholmed. You know how many exes I've had who told me they got Stockholmed by their abusive boyfriends? Which is leading me to think that women might be wired up to choose abusive rapey men and then get Stockholmed by them as a way of bonding. If you consider the way caveman probably treated their women, this may have been created via natural selection with cavewomen.

80-20 Rule: Yes It Is Actually Real

Al DuClor: Men selected exactly the type they claimed they were looking for.

Other dating studies found this too. Men selected women all the way across the board. There seemed to be a tendency to select for women in about their looks range. It's woke bullshit that "all incels demand a 10." 80% of the women selected only the top 20% of the men. Obviously most of those women were not 9's and 10's themselves.

Al DuClor: However 80 percent of women selected the two tallest men (as long as both were over 6 foot), yet not a single woman claimed height as important to her in attraction to a mate.

This implies that women are even lying to themselves a good part of the time. The sexist in me says that's even less reason to take them seriously, but maybe self-delusion is just part of the Feminine Principle.