Male and Female Homosexuality as a "Syndromes" Instead of Mental Disorders

Once I was talking to my paternal grandmother about gay men. She knew all about them, all the same stuff that we honest modern people (How many of those are there anymore?) know about them. She was born 85 years before and she could have written a book about urban male homosexuality in the 1980’s. And she was born in 1900! How the Hell did she know all this stuff? This got me to thinking that gay men probably haven’t really changed that much. I’ve read about gay men in Medieval Florence. They used to meet in underground passageways, alleys, and parks for anonymous sex. Sound familiar? They’ve been the same all down through time!

This got me to thinking that male homosexuality is not a mental disorder. However, it almost acts like one. That’s because instead of a disorder, it’s what I call a “syndrome.” A number of other things, resulting in a “syndrome,” seem to hitch along with the ride with male homosexuality, some of which are rather non-adaptive and unhealthy.

I wish they could overcome these things, but I’m wondering if it’s just part of the syndrome. Or maybe Mother Nature is punishing them for deviating from the program. She tends to do that and that’s where Catholic Natural Law comes from. It’s not completely without merit unfortunately.

I’m afraid lesbianism is a “syndrome” too, or at least traditionally it’s been one. There’s saying:

On the second date, she brings the moving van.

Lesbians don’t even date that much. They start dating and the next thing you know, they’re living together, possibly due to female preference for close relationships.

There’s also the phenomenon of “lesbian bed death.” After they’ve been together for a while, the sex dwindles down to once a month. I have no idea why that is. Once again I think Mother Nature is talking. If you’re truly wired up lesbian, hey fine, I know you can’t help it. But it ain’t normal, sorry, hun. And I think when your behavior is against Mother’s imperative, Nature punishes you for not playing ball. In this case the punishment is lunar sex aligned with the menses but a dozen times a year like the cycle of each other the former events.

Sometimes I think a spark is missing that is present in male-female sex, an edge, a “bit of rough” as the British say, perhaps a hint of danger and certainly of aggression. It tends to form a natural dominance and submission dynamic that in my opinion can spark off a lot of sex. It’s the tension, possibly a tension that missing in Pillsbury Doughboy soft and cuddly but ultimately pleasantly boring lesbian relationships.

A friend lives in Ottowa. He knows a lot of feminist idiots up there. Quite a few of them are middle aged or older. They tend to be radical feminists, and they all call themselves lesbian feminists, but there’s a problem. Sure they’re feminists, they’re dumb enough all right.

But I’m just as sure they’re not lesbians. They just say they’re lesbians because that’s how much they hate us eeeeeevil men. But they have the misfortune of having been born straight women, so in these “lesbian feminist” relationships, there is absolutely zero sex. Which is just as well. They us hate men so they deserve to never get laid just for that right there! And Mother Nature’s punishing them too. She’s saying:

You hate men and you’re straight so you’re cosplaying a lesbian? Fine, then you get zero sex, baby!

My Mom the 2nd Wave feminist might even agree. Good for Mom. Good for Mother.

Lesbianism is also associated with loneliness. One of the great lesbian novels is The Well of Loneliness from the 30’s. Lesbians, like gay men, also suffer from elevated rates of depression, anxiety, smoking, and alcohol and drug abuse. And lesbianism and male homosexuality somehow shaves a damned 20 years off the lifespan of both, and God knows how.

All of these pathologies hold true even in nations where gays and lesbians are the most well accepted. Like I said, maybe Mother’s punishing them for not being team players? Catholics pushing natural law are mostly scumbags (the Supreme Court’s full of these Opus Dei/Heritage Foundation prigs), but for a while now, I’ve thought that they’re onto something.

I’m not attacking wired-up gays and lesbians here. I know you can’t help it, and I wish you all could overcome these things, as a lot of it is painful, and the years cut short are tragic! But I’m wondering if it’s possible.

Lesbianism and Male Homosexuality By Choice? I Don’t Approve

If you are lesbian by choice, I have no sympathy for you. Obviously you hate us men. Well, fine, go dyke out to your heart’s content, baby. Strap in on and go for it. But don’t expect me to approve of your BS. And since you hate us, no, I will not say hello.

If you’re basically a straight man and you’re doing gay stuff, that’s called “fagging off” back in my youth. There’s no reason for you to be doing it. I know straight men will never stop this bullshit, often related to the absence of women and the resulting opportunistic sex with men. This is otherwise known as situational homosexuality, the bane of naval crews and merchant marines through time and space, but I still don’t like it. You’re not getting laid, brother? Fine, welcome to the club! If you’re not getting women, go on a date with Mary. Mary’s your right hand. Don’t fag off. I know a lot of you will do it any, but don’t tell me about your faggy fun please. I don’t want to her about it!